Your Questions, Answered

  • How do I join?
    Membership is strictly invite- or referral-led, keeping our community curated, balanced, and social

    Who can join?
    Our events are designed for singles aged 30+ who value connection, style, and good company.

    Are there membership fees?
    No. However each event is ticketed. A small, one-time £20.00 registration fee which gets taken off your first event ticket.

    Do I need to attend events regularly?
    No. Attendance is optional—but being a member means you’ll receive invitations to the experiences.

  • What types of events do you host?
    Dining and intimate social gatherings designed to spark conversation and connection. No screaming at strangers over drum and bass.

    Can I attend a Les Bons Oeuf event solo?
    Members must bring one “good egg”—a friend or relative who is single, social, and someone you trust.

    How are guests selected?
    Guests are curated for compatibility, balance, and social chemistry, including careful attention to gender mix at straight-focused events.

    Do I need to RSVP in advance?
    Yes, spaces are very limited.

    What should I wear?
    Chic, smart-casual attire. Stylish yet effortless - unless the invitation for a specific event says otherwise.

  • Is Les Bons Oeuf for dating only?

    All attendees need to be single, however many members attend for friendship, networking, and social engagement…but romance may follow.

    What is a “good egg”?
    A friend you respect, who is single, socially confident, and someone you’d happily vouch for.

    Can I bring a partner or someone I’m currently seeing?
    Sorry, events are for singles and their invited bon oeuf only to maintain balance and intent.

    What if I meet someone I like?
    We won’t give out anyone’s details so the ball is your court to swap details.

    Can I post the events on social media?
    You’re always welcome to take a photo of the food, the ambiance and the occasional mirror selfie if you’re feeling yourself that day. We will never post photos of our guests and we ask that that our guests won’t post photos of each other without expressed permission.

  • Where are events held?
    We select venues that align with our values have good food and good vibes. This is a mix of foodie-favourites and just-opened venues we feel our members should have on their radar. Exact locations are shared with invitees the week of the event.

    What’s included?
    Events will be family-style curated menus with wine, and pre- and post-event drinks where noted. Our restaurant partners are encouraged to curate new menu offerings before they get added to their regular/seasonal menus.

    Can I cancel or transfer my RSVP?
    Yes, up until 5 days before the event—please notify us in advance so we can maintain balance and offer your spot to another member on the waitlist.

    Do you accommodate dietary restrictions?
    Absolutely—members can note requirements at RSVP. Venues are flexible.

    Can I suggest a venue or restaurant?
    Yes. We welcome introductions to venues that meet our criteria and vibe.